Comments for Stephanie Flesher's Weblog http://stephanieflesher.wordpress.com You are what you believe! Sat, 24 May 2008 09:01:28 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 Comment on I Hate the Window by trisha fairchok http://stephanieflesher.wordpress.com/2008/01/11/i-hate-the-window/#comment-46 trisha fairchok Sat, 24 May 2008 09:01:28 +0000 http://stephanieflesher.wordpress.com/2008/01/11/i-hate-the-window/#comment-46 Wow!! What a powerful story.......You are so fearless and so honest and you have faced what many of us fear the most. When I read the story I felt strongly that your parents were chosen by God for you because he had great plans for you. You are very special because you were chosen for greatness. I also grew up with a mother that saw me as competition and disliked me. I have my own story but because she continues to be toxic I have chosen to not have her in my life. It has been the right decision. I cried when I read the last part of your mothers story about how she loves you. That is the letter I always wanted but know it will never be. I was told by a therapist that I married my mother because it was unfinished business and looking back that is true. I am still working on allowing myself to be in a relationship/intimacy so I suppose we all are struggling for wholeness. I know that I have been a great mom and my kids adore me - they have matured me and it has been the greatest gift. I admire you and I look forward to watching your continuing path and where you will go. You have wings now so nothing will stop you. God bless Trisha Wow!! What a powerful story…….You are so fearless and so honest and you have faced what many of us fear the most. When I read the story I felt strongly that your parents were chosen by God for you because he had great plans for you. You are very special because you were chosen for greatness.
I also grew up with a mother that saw me as competition and disliked me. I have my own story but because she continues to be toxic I have chosen to not have her in my life. It has been the right decision. I cried when I read the last part of your mothers story about how she loves you. That is the letter I always wanted but know it will never be. I was told by a therapist that I married my mother because it was unfinished business and looking back that is true. I am still working on allowing myself to be in a relationship/intimacy so I suppose we all are struggling for wholeness. I know that I have been a great mom and my kids adore me – they have matured me and it has been the greatest gift. I admire you and I look forward to watching your continuing path and where you will go. You have wings now so nothing will stop you. God bless Trisha

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]]> Comment on Domestic Violence Safety Plan by the individual voice http://stephanieflesher.wordpress.com/2007/12/03/domestic-violence-safety-plan/#comment-6 the individual voice Mon, 10 Dec 2007 01:58:53 +0000 http://stephanieflesher.wordpress.com/2007/12/03/domestic-violence-safety-plan/#comment-6 This is great. I will pass it along. This is great. I will pass it along.

]]> Comment on Domestic Violence Safety Plan by If you need a plan to get away from your abuser « blahblahblah http://stephanieflesher.wordpress.com/2007/12/03/domestic-violence-safety-plan/#comment-5 If you need a plan to get away from your abuser « blahblahblah Sun, 09 Dec 2007 00:19:39 +0000 http://stephanieflesher.wordpress.com/2007/12/03/domestic-violence-safety-plan/#comment-5 [...] 9, 2007 by cole Go here and print this out. Give it to a friend or family member you trust. Make a plan and leave. Go far away. Don’t [...] [...] 9, 2007 by cole Go here and print this out. Give it to a friend or family member you trust. Make a plan and leave. Go far away. Don’t [...]

]]> Comment on Domestic Violence Safety Plan by cole http://stephanieflesher.wordpress.com/2007/12/03/domestic-violence-safety-plan/#comment-4 cole Sun, 09 Dec 2007 00:17:49 +0000 http://stephanieflesher.wordpress.com/2007/12/03/domestic-violence-safety-plan/#comment-4 I think this is a wonderful entry and in tribute to my friend and her 3 children who were murdered by their father/ex-husband on thanksgiving this year I will link you from my blog. My friend did everything right and still was murdered. I don't know what else can be done except to change custody laws and laws of protection for women and men who are being abused. Having a plan and a system of support could mean life or death. xx I think this is a wonderful entry and in tribute to my friend and her 3 children who were murdered by their father/ex-husband on thanksgiving this year I will link you from my blog.

My friend did everything right and still was murdered. I don’t know what else can be done except to change custody laws and laws of protection for women and men who are being abused.

Having a plan and a system of support could mean life or death.
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